Wednesday, March 19, 2008

A Thing Called Love (Part One)

Recently, lots of things have been happening.
& It all starts with love, our emotions.
What is love?
Have you ever ask yourself?
What does it mean to you?
Is it important?

I have been thinking a lot, i mean a lot lately.
I was going to post this anytime this week.
I guess today's the day.

Okay, but first, i wanna like share this quote.
It's from someone.
Someone from Jerome's blog.
But i dont know his name or who he is.

Loving people means,
giving them the freedom
to be who they choose to be
and where they choose to be.
Love is allowing people to be in your life out of choice...
- 0|\|3 0* %0n. *.13|\|P

Whoever this person is,
I cant simply disagree with you.
Nice quote you have out there.

Once again, this quote made me think.

First, I have some definition.
Maybe not.
But somebody told me,
Guys tell you that they love you,
forever?
They cant live without you.
Sounds familiar?

There goes, whatever guys say to you.
Just listen and never take it to heart.

It's sorta true.
Guys tell me this and that.
Mostly, they dont mean what they say.

If you take it to heart,
you will only be hurting yourself.

Okay, that's just my opinion.

Two real life stories about the people i know.
First story starts like this.
* names are changed

*Zac and his girlfriend, *Patricia was a very loving couple.
But Zac was sort of a playboy.
He three-timed her after they were together for about 2 months.

Patricia found out.
She was awfully upset.
She was thinking about it, thinking why would he hurt her like that.
They had an big quarrel.
A very big one indeed.
Zac finally realised his mistakes.
He didnt date other girls anymore.
He realised how important Patricia was to him.

He stop dating the other girls.
This three-timed thingy last for around 3 months.
After what happen, I can see that he loves her.
And yea, that is also why he broke up with the other 2 girls.
They were really loving the last time i met them.
They were together for a year and a few months.
He sms-es other girls.

They started spending lesser time together.
They dont do everything with each other anymore.
Patricia was always the one who sms him first.
He takes his time to reply and he dont even reply at times.
And the guy suddenly lose his feeling for her.
Slowly, the love he had for her, faded away.
Patricia was super upset.

She was heartbroken.
She cut herself to numb her pain in her heart.
Patricia : Do you still love me?
Zac : A little.

She was hurted badly.

She still loves him.

Alot, to be exact.

She's loving him, until now.

Zac knew what she did to herself.
Zac : Dont cut yourself.

Patricia : Sorry Sorry.

In actual fact, he doesnt love her anymore.

They havent break up.
S
he doesnt want him to leave her.

But, as for Zac.

He knew that he didnt want to continue.

But, he didnt want to pop the break up question.

He just didnt want to say anything.


Okay, i think that this is a very sad thing.
He shouldnt drag this on anymore.
The situation will be very bad if he doesnt take any action.
I think he went overboard with what he answered.
And, when she cut herself.
He wasnt really very concerned.
Moreover, she's the one feeling bad and hurt enough.
She actually apologised to him.
That's why love kills at times.
It wasnt even her fault please!?
What the fuck she said sorry for.

Girl, move on please, you can find someone much better.
I have been hurt before.
I know what is feels like.
It isnt easy to let go.
But, love yourself.
Stop thinking bout him, get a new guy yea.
All the best.

Okay, there are two, but i only completed one.
I will continue the other one in Part two.

Love hurts.
Love is difficult.
We all love someone.
But who is the someone?
So, what does love really mean?

Please think how much you love the people around you.
Dont hurt the people around you.

& please, im not meaning anything on what i say above.
its just something i feel.

Part two continuing soon.

I really feel
That I'm losing my best friend
I can't believe
This could be the end.
It looks as though you're letting go.